Well apparently I'm so damn likable that the "Ex" wants to stay friends. In his words " Best breakup ever". Kinda weird but I'm not surprised. I am pretty freakin charming and fun to be around. My good looks, pretty smile and great sense of humor make everyone wanna have me in their life. LOL!!! Yeah right!! We were just made to be friends, no more. It's good that we realized it now instead of waiting and making it so we hate each other.

I was so nervous to break the news. I haven't had to break up with someone since high school. My last releationship was a mutual break up. The one before, he left me. Prior to that my bf died. So this was intense for me. That's 10 years with out being the one to break it off. My tummy hurt, my mouth was dry and I had clammy hands. All of that, FOR NOTHING. He took it great. He pretty much agreed with me.

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So 13 years ago today, my sister Debbie passed away. This candle is for her and all other woman lost to breast cancer. We miss you Debbie!